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often pointing out to clients who complain of low energy levels and
chronic fatigue in winter, that our culture has become vastly
alienated from the natural cycles of the seasons. Consequently, many
suffer from forcing their bodies to ignore the dictates of their
biological rhythms. Gallagher explained this dilemma by observing
that the root of winter depression is the lack of sunlight, coupled
with the conflict which exists between our internal clock and the
clock inflicted upon us by society. Further, Gallagher refers to
research which implies that the more a society disregards natural
rhythms, the more often cases of SAD will occur. Next, Gallagher
points out how urban Alaskans fare much worse than the natives of
Alaska during the long dark winter. Gallagher shares that,
"...Perhaps most important, Native Alaskans see winter as a
time to kick back and have some fun, the oldest and best
antidepressant."
My friend, Pam Holmquist, a successful
craftswoman and artist, who's resided in Alaska for almost two
decades, concurs. Holmquist observes that native Alaskans tend to
adjust their life style to accommodate to the change in season,
while urban newcomers attempt to maintain their summer schedule. The
result: newcomers usually find themselves far more depressed and
exhausted by the end of winter than their native neighbors do.
Obviously, for most of the individuals with
whom I worked in Maine, choosing to adapt to winter in much the same
way as the native Alaskans, is simply not an option. However, there
are generally several modifications that can be made in order to
more effectively cope with winter. It may be important for such
individuals to commit to resting more, and to reduce demands and
expectations during the winter months. I often suggest that clients
explore what activities may be best suited for them during the
changing seasons, and encourage them to honor this knowledge by
adjusting their behavior accordingly.
In regard to our responses to the changing of
seasons, I wrote the following in my journal some time ago before
moving to South Carolina:
"I sit in my office across from a
soft-spoken, tanned, young woman who is sadly lamenting the end of
summer. I listen as she mourns the loss of long, hot days, bare foot
walks along the beach, and the gratification of working in her
garden. As she speaks, I notice the bright August sunlight streaming
through the window, drawing out the rich amber of her hair. I recall
a verse in the Bible that says, "to everything there in a
season." I, too, love summer. It's my favorite time of year,
and yet I learned years ago to recognize the gifts of autumn and
winter.
Seasons represent the cycles of life and offer
the necessary variations required for change and growth by all
living creatures. Too many of us have lost touch with our deep
connection to them and the effects that the changing rhythms of
nature have upon our bodies, our spirits, our emotions, and our
state of mind. In the summertime, the rhythm of my life becomes
quicker, lighter, and often skips a beat as I go speeding along. I
sleep less and generally play more. It's a time when I explore the
exteriors of my life to a greater degree - when the absolute beauty
of the Maine coast, the music of the loons on Dam Pond, and the awe
of a mountain view can effortlessly transport me to a place of
gratitude, of thankfulness, of joy. In the winter, my rhythms slow
down, and I find myself more often exploring interior regions. It's
a time when I reflect more, write letters, make longer entries in my
journal, and ponder the other-worldly sounds emanating from the
frozen pond. Winter for me is a time for reflection, a time for
filling my home with the rich aroma of baking bread, of being
soothed by the crackling wood fire, and hypnotized by the falling
snow. It involves a gentler, more even tempo and a time for me to
restore my soul. While summer represents the vigor of youth, winter
symbolizes the strength and wisdom of age. I will always love
summer, and yet I will always need winter. For many years, like the
young woman before me, I, too, grieved the passing of the summers of
my young adulthood, too often looking back with longing and thus
failing to fully grasp the gifts offered by the present. I'm
reminded now of another lesson - that we all must learn to let go.
Just as the trees release their leaves in autumn, we, too, must
release at times what we are holding onto in order to embrace what's
now before us. Participating fully in this endless cycle of changing
seasons provides us with an unfailing testimony that beginnings and
endings are always bound together. When confronting one, we are
always promised the other."
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