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The Common Sources of Personality Disorders
Do all personality disorders have a common psychodynamic source?
To what stage of personal development can we attribute this
common source?
Can the paths leading from that common source to each of these
disorders be charted?
Will positive answers to the above endow us with a new
understanding of these pernicious conditions?
Acute Anger
Anger is a compounded phenomenon. It has dispositional properties, expressive
and motivational components, situational and individual variations, cognitive
and excitatory interdependent manifestations and psychophysiological (especially
neuroendocrine) aspects. From the psychobiological point of view, it probably
had its survival utility in early evolution, but it seems to have lost a lot of
it in modern societies. Actually, in most cases it is counterproductive, even
dangerous. Dysfunctional anger is known to have pathogenic effects (mostly
cardiovascular).
Most personality disordered people are prone to be angry. Their anger is
always sudden, raging, frightening and without an apparent provocation by an
outside agent. It would seem that people suffering from personality disorders
are in a CONSTANT state of anger, which is effectively suppressed most of the
time. It manifests itself only when the person's defences are down,
incapacitated, or adversely affected by circumstances, inner or external. We
have pointed at the psychodynamic source of this permanent, bottled-up anger,
elsewhere in this book. In a nutshell, the patient was, usually, unable to
express anger and direct it at "forbidden" targets in his early, formative years
(his parents, in most cases). The anger, however, was a justified reaction to
abuses and mistreatment. The patient was, therefore, left to nurture a sense of
profound injustice and frustrated rage. Healthy people experience anger, but as
a transitory state. This is what sets the personality disordered apart: their
anger is always acute, permanently present, often suppressed or repressed.
Healthy anger has an external inducing agent (a reason). It is directed at this
agent (coherence).
Pathological anger is neither coherent, not externally induced. It emanates
from the inside and it is diffuse, directed at the "world" and at "injustice" in
general. The patient does identify the IMMEDIATE cause of the anger. Still, upon
closer scrutiny, the cause is likely to be found lacking and the anger
excessive, disproportionate, incoherent. To refine the point: it might be more
accurate to say that the personality disordered is expressing (and experiencing)
TWO layers of anger, simultaneously and always. The first layer, the superficial
anger, is indeed directed at an identified target, the alleged cause of the
eruption. The second layer, however, is anger directed at himself. The patient
is angry at himself for being unable to vent off normal anger, normally. He
feels like a miscreant. He hates himself. This second layer of anger also
comprises strong and easily identifiable elements of frustration, irritation and
annoyance.
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