Posttraumatic Growth: 5 Keys to Developing Resilience

This my up to date comment to posttraumatic growth has make known the importance of successful overcoming to any stressful life event. As it is known , life problems and hindrances are common and usual daily experiences, We must to face with them in order to be creative and respectable member of respective social network. But our daily life is struck by different and unproved moments and events, which ones may to destroy profoundly our global welfare. In these circumstances, it ought to make effort to endure and to surpass the critical situation. Everyone has got itself innate psycho-social skills and performance to stand up to the stressful life events, but your original ways are helpful tool to manage in satisfying manner these bad life experiences. Common denominator of these life performances is resilience as powerful aptitude to return and grow up personal, occupational and social aptitudes. On the other hand, resilience get us much endure, tolerant competent and capable to future unkind and stressful circumstances. By me as expert of mental health these personal characteristics constitute the attributes of strong and mindful person. Have any other type of persons that are useful and successful on social milieu???

I suffer PTSD from a double rape in 1996. I've had extensive therapy of different natures as well as medications. I didn't tell anyone for 3 years. I was too ashamed. I knew my rapists over 2 years as my best friends. Obviously, I never expected them to drug and rape me. Due to the fact that they were prominent respected public figures in the community, I failed to report it. I suffer from blaming myself for my clothing, choice to go out that night, many things. I rationally know this is not true, but my brain won't let go. Due to the fact that I never tried to fight them in court, I suffer IMMENSE guilt that it probably happened to other women after me. Time has done nothing to help. I still plod on with medication and therapy, but my biggest help has been in becoming brave enough to tell my story to other women. If I can prevent just 1 woman from being raped, it's worth it. I wasn't aware just how negative it still effects me until I read the above quote '... I am cursed.' I feel that way and say those very words often. I wish I had my family's support, but I don't. They choose to pretend it never happened. Thank you for this article. I'm going to start trying to be more positive with a survivor attitude today. Maybe this will be the start of freedom from my prison.

Some days ago, I suggest to my colleague a subject for social skills, as prerequisite of enhancement mental welfare. This deficit in our education system gives rise to many psychiatric entities, with many psycho-social consequences. The same is value for posttraumatic experiences. In absence of this favor condition, your five recommendations are welcomed. The oldish men says that life is the most mindful teacher. On the other hand, each traumatic experience sprain our mental apparatus, with specific repercussion to our somatic and social welfare, as well. In the same time, posttraumatic statement indicates many useful lesson of real nature to respective traumatic event. This benefit enables our mindset to deal with success with future bad life experiences. For me, your second and third observation exhibit great provocation and challenge. My inner voice said that strengthening of family sociogram is neglected one, instead to affirmation of wide social network. This misconception, should be incline to first option, whereas friendship relations are of complementary importance in grief situations.